I was asked that very question on the weekend. (more…)
I have noticed in my quest to help myself that I always go back to me when things are not what I like or want them to be.
Because I like my reaction better than anyone I know.
Let me explain.
Ever get excited about stuff and then wonder why when you try to share to help, no one is as excited as you.
Of course I am excluding my partner in crime here which is hubby.
He is always excited by my plans, because he gets to benefit in the end and it’s always a bit of challenge which I think he enjoys as well.
So what do you do to get people on your side? Nothing. Don’t do a single thing.
Keep doing what you love and keep being happy with it. If you share your good fortune and share how to get that good fortune whether it be sharing Facebook postings about happiness and peace or your saving money ideas and no one appears to be that interested. It’s alright. Don’t take it personally and please no matter what you do, don’t give up or stop if you love what you are doing.
Ever hear about the pot that is watched never boils. It’s true for a lot of things. If you simply do what you love and leave it alone, I guarantee you might be pleasantly surprised.
Sometimes it’s not about an agenda but more a true belief and love of what you are doing and sharing. If you are constantly awaiting approval from a population who has its own life to live, you might end up feeling quite disappointed.
So stop worrying so much of what should be happening and could be happening and just concentrate on what you really want to be doing? And enjoy it.
Don’t be hard on yourself if you need a break, but don’t’ give up on the stuff that you love. It is who you are. The people who know you and love you are interested and it should not really matter what the rest of the world thinks. You have shared and if they want to be part of that, they can always be.
Do what you can with what you have and want to share of yourself, and do it because you want to and for no other reason.
When you do what you love, everything else eventually follows. It can’t help it. All the positive you bring has to bounce off somewhere. And what you send out comes back to you. You share the good, you receive the good.
It’s a thing, so go out and do your thing!